beautiful garbage

In response to:more than just a party

Tue, 09 Dec 2008 15:43:04 +0100

hello you.

Have a good time tonight, but be careful with the alcomaholicals - just in case you say stuff to a certain someone you may regret the next day.

God I sound like such an old wet blanket - feel free to ignore all of the above.

:)

In response to:addiction

Thu, 30 Oct 2008 20:17:24 +0100

Thank you for your opinion, its very much appreciated. I agree that ignoring the signs can occasionaly lead to better desintations, and taking risks is what keeps life exciting, I'm just not sure I have the strength in me at this point in time to deal with a situation thats not to my liking. I have much to think about!

Thank you for your suggestion!

In response to:addiction

Wed, 29 Oct 2008 20:56:48 +0100

Beware, familiarity breeds contempt, on that I am almost certain.

However, I am also certain that some of the best journeys I have ever embarked upon have been made all the better by blatantly disregaurding the road signs.

I suppose a journey in-itself can seem piecemeal, you traverse a distance between some A and some B, A being your origin and B your destination, upon arrival at your destination you consider the journey, whether it was eventful or not, complete.

However, if you begin at A but have no idea towards which B you are going then, ultimatley, you can at least shed off the feeling that the journey is piecemeal and look upon it as a perpetual adventure.

The trick being a blatant disreguard for the "road signs" but also for any destination B you may or may not desire to reach, go with the flow.

Failing this you could do what men have done for centuries substitute this addiction for another, drinking? probably, gambling? only foolishly... Drugs? never ever.

In response to:the danger of thought

Thu, 23 Oct 2008 19:24:56 +0200

Thinking is one of the last great 'freedoms' of life - don't ever give that up... :D

In response to:Unstoppable

Mon, 06 Oct 2008 21:22:12 +0200

"my heart has never quite lead me in the right direction."

Oh yea...I know what you mean!

In response to:Unstoppable

Thu, 25 Sep 2008 17:28:09 +0200

Your heart will always have a voice in there somewhere but loving yourself is the most important thing and it looks like you've achieved that :) Everything else will fall into place.

In response to:Unstoppable

Tue, 23 Sep 2008 18:39:55 +0200

you cant seperate the heart from the head But you can let your head rule:)

In response to:new beginning, again

Tue, 16 Sep 2008 20:52:19 +0200

Just go with the flow for once. But don't build it up too much yet.

Just see if you can relax and have fun together and enjoy each other for a while, then see what happens.

Happiness is a good cure for heartbreak.

x

In response to:new beginning, again

Tue, 16 Sep 2008 19:50:31 +0200

beware of the bouncy bouncy thing though.
we have all jumped from one relationship to the other too quickly.

tis always nice to have time to rebuild the relationship with the main person in your life - youself.

love+light to you+yours

In response to:hmm...

Thu, 11 Sep 2008 21:00:28 +0200

Know exactly what you mean! Am good bit older than you i think. Just out of 5 yr relationhip.Need to find real me, think we all do! starting journeys...good luck! If ever you get the urge to Greek island hop give me a shout lol x

In response to:erase and rewind

Tue, 19 Aug 2008 21:20:41 +0200

Bah! relationships, sod 'em. I may spend a year celibate and gay for tax reasons.

:)

In response to:New Horizons

Sun, 10 Aug 2008 13:58:54 +0200

That's a very important realization you have come to there. Make sure you never forget it.

Tom.

In response to:colin

Thu, 05 Jun 2008 08:33:00 +0200

dont leave!!!

In response to:spewing words on a page

Thu, 29 May 2008 16:33:16 +0200

Spewing is good.

If it helps .... x

In response to:spewing words on a page

Thu, 29 May 2008 14:25:35 +0200

Hope is sometimes a good thing, but you hoping for him to come back is just hurting yourself for no reason.

Yes, you need to grieve and let the pain out but you have to try to move on. It is hard when you have really connected with someone but the path to being "over" someone is as long as it is - if that makes sense.

(note to self - how about taking your own advice and stopping the giving it to others)

:)

In response to:theres always trouble in paradise

Fri, 18 Apr 2008 14:36:10 +0200

Maybe his lack of conversation is due to being wiped out after the Glandular fever?

I got this and it made me a zombie. And it takes years to completely get out of your system. I would get minor relapses and all I could do was sleep and vegitate.

But, maybe the conversation is over. Maybe it's time to take control and move on.

Only you will know.

Good luck with whatever path you choose. But make a choice, don't just drift. If you drift you will find yourself screaming in a rut and going mad in a couple of years time.

x

In response to:god, thank you

Fri, 21 Mar 2008 20:17:13 +0100

Us women are terrible with worrying!!!
Men are so simple and sometimes I wish I could have that laid back attitude! When I'm waiting for a text message (I'm currently doing this right now lol) I turn my phone off, place it under my pillow and check it every hour lol. I'm not sure why I think switching it off will somehow make him text back quicker! lol

Take Care

x

In response to:change

Tue, 18 Mar 2008 13:55:18 +0100

I think you are just being realistic.

No one knows where any relationship is going to take them till they get there. You have to try and enjoy the trip, as it were. Doubts are natural, but all cases are different.

If its good now, stick with it. If it stops being good - talk, try to change it, or get out.

Good luck.

In response to:just one little thing

Sun, 16 Mar 2008 20:48:37 +0100

I hope it is all ok ...the tests today are so acurate so you should find out soon!

In response to:becomeing one of 'those' girls, ain't so bad afterall

Sun, 16 Mar 2008 19:18:36 +0100

Beautiful.

This takes me back to December 2006.
I spent 4 nights locked indoors with a guy I was besotted with.
We kissed, watched films, ate Krispy Kreme doughnuts, chatted for hours and basically spent the majority of the time in his bed.

Happiness is amazing.
Capture every moment!

Take Care

Sarah
xx

In response to:having everything v being independent

Thu, 13 Mar 2008 14:18:42 +0100

Hey, I think it will definitely help you later on in life. Not only that, but you can feel proud of yourself for what you're achieving now, and you'll know that whatever comes your way in life, you'll probably be able to deal with it!
I worked my way through my education as well, with hardly any days off, but it was soooo worth it! Since then, I've managed to start a new life away from home, on my own, managing my money in a way to allow me to buy my first property at a young age, independently, at a time when people struggle to get on the property ladder. So you keep going! It will pay off in the end, and it will be so worth it!
Also, I can't imagine your friend is really judging you, but there might be a bit of misunderstanding there, as she probably hasn't had to face the same issues. It won't last forever. Keep an eye on what you achieve overall in your life!
Sorry about the long comment... Good luck! And well done you!

In response to:his name is colin, and i hope he never finds this

Fri, 29 Feb 2008 15:14:29 +0100

enjoy, darling. I used to have a verbal diurea, but experiences taught me that I should really learn to keep my mouth shut. I'm getting better at it.

It seems to me you have a good bloke there, and different, from what I could've seen. Keep him; a friend like him rarely comes along!

Visit me..

In response to:Enjoying the Ride

Tue, 19 Feb 2008 12:23:21 +0100

Thank you!

In response to:Enjoying the Ride

Tue, 19 Feb 2008 00:44:58 +0100

That is so good to hear.

Someone on this site, enjoying what they have and just taking a journey with no route plan, smelling the flowers on the way.

I wish you the best of luck.

:)

In response to:Just some random ramblings...

Fri, 25 Jan 2008 23:21:32 +0100

If you stop smoking everyone you see is smoking, if you break up with someone all you see is couples.......
AND every song on the radio is a LOVE song lol
This is ALL true :yes:

In response to:girl, overboard

Thu, 10 Jan 2008 01:00:25 +0100

Yeah, I think its time for a swim...

In response to:girl, overboard

Mon, 07 Jan 2008 20:17:00 +0100

i have girls aloud on my laptop cuz of my sister... nothing wrong with a little guilty pleasure!

In response to:girl, overboard

Mon, 07 Jan 2008 18:36:25 +0100

Swimming is good exercise ;) See where it takes you, if it's meant to be and all that

In response to:girl, overboard

Mon, 07 Jan 2008 16:41:01 +0100

Noooo, climb back on the boat and get to where your going.

In response to:the thunder

Thu, 03 Jan 2008 20:30:58 +0100

Very nicely described. Exciting, too- whatever will happen next? It is good to know he has a great sense of humour and respect. Good luck!!